It was a game-changing moment for Etan Thomas. Pulled over by the police, he sat silently on the road as an officer fixated on him. The policeman’s fingertips hovered over his holster, ready to grab his gun, while his partners tried to pinpoint why the black teen looked so familiar.
It must be from a mugshot, they said. When they demanded he pop his trunk, revealing high school basketball gear inside, they finally recognized the star athlete whose achievements were often splashed across the local newspaper.
![Retired NBA player, activist and motivational speaker Etan Thomas delivered the Black History Month keynote last Wednesday at UMW. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas061-200x300.jpg)
The former Washington Wizard shared that story during his Black History Month keynote Wednesday at the University of Mary Washington. Packed into the UC’s Chandler Ballroom, students, UMW athletes and coaches, faculty, staff, university administrators, President Troy Paino and wife Kelly, and community members listened raptly as Thomas discussed systemic racism, police brutality, the school-to-prison pipeline, stop-and-frisk and more. Thomas’ appearance came as the University celebrates Farmer Legacy 2020, honoring Dr. James L. Farmer Jr., the civil rights icon and late Mary Washington professor, who would have been 100 this year.
Thomas’ activism was borne out of that teenage incident, he said, buoyed by his mother’s passion for social justice, and a speech teacher who encouraged him to channel his emotions into an oratory, which he delivered at regional and national competitions, garnering media attention.
“I realized I could use this basketball thing to speak for people who can’t speak for themselves,” said Thomas, whose advocacy work earned him prestigious awards from the National Basketball Players Association and the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Foundation.
A published poet and author of several books, including 2018’s We Matter: Athletes and Activism, Thomas began the evening with a free-flowing, imagery-rich, spoken-word poem, which served as a springboard for the ensuing discussion.
In his poem, Thomas lamented the murders of Trayvon Martin, Eric Garner, Terence Crutcher, Philando Castile and other victims of police brutality, as well as the pain felt by their families, whom Thomas interviewed for his book and supported in their quest for justice. He spoke of juries who failed to convict, politicians and pundits who attack athletes for speaking out against oppression and “a system that was built for us to fail.” Throughout, listeners snapped their fingers in agreement. Thomas’ poem ended with, “we are going to keep pursuing justice.”
![etanthomas029 Thomas played 11 seasons in the NBA after playing college basketball at Syracuse University. He was heartened to see his alma mater, especially the athletic teams, pull together in the face of the recent rash of racist and anti-Semitic incidents on SU's campus, he said, extolling the virtues of collective power. He also shared that playing in D.C. for seven seasons fueled his passion for political activism. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas029-scaled.jpg?w=730&h=487&ssl=1)
![etanthomas070 Thomas presented a spoken-word poem that served as a springboard for the ensuing discussion. Audience members asked Thomas a range of questions that covered the role that professional athletes have played in bringing police brutality and victims of violence to national attention, whether celebrities should be considered role models, black stereotypes and representation, and how to engage with those who disagree with you and create allies. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas070-scaled.jpg?w=362&h=242&ssl=1)
![etanthomas056 Packed into the UC's Chandler Ballroom, students, UMW athletes and coaches, faculty, staff, university administrators, President Troy Paino and wife Kelly, and community members all listened as Thomas delivered a spoken-word poem about systemic racism, victims of police brutality, athlete-activists being attacked by the media and politicians, and more. "Don't believe for a minute that your life doesn't matter," he said. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas056-scaled.jpg?w=363&h=242&ssl=1)
![etanthomas027 copy Fredericksburg area residents came to UMW to see Thomas, who has earned prestigious awards from the National Basketball Players Association and the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Foundation. The retired NBA player is a published poet and author of several activism books, and he currently writes for The Guardian and hosts a show on WPFW 89.3, The Collision, which covers the intersection of sports and politics. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas027-copy-scaled.jpg?w=363&h=242&ssl=1)
![etanthomas073 copy First-year Bilqiis Sheikh-Issa, VP of UMW's NAACP chapter, who also recently formed the Poetic Justice club, asked Thomas about supporting the families of victims of police violence in their quest for justice, and the emotional toll that takes on him. He shared an anecdote about feeling heartbroken and frustrated after being with Terence Crutcher's family when they learned a jury had acquitted the officer who killed him. When Thomas came home, his daughter said words he needed to hear: "You just need to keep on fighting." Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas073-copy-scaled.jpg?w=362&h=242&ssl=1)
UMW Women’s Lacrosse Assistant Coach Maddie Taghon asked about Colin Kaepernick – whom Thomas referenced in the poem – an NFL player publicly disparaged for taking a knee against systemic racism, corruption and police violence. By claiming that veterans and the National Anthem were the targets, Thomas said, the media and politicians discouraged other players from joining the protest. Changing the narrative took the focus off the real issue, he added.
Another question centered on the 1993 headline-making assertion by NBA Hall-of-Famer Charles Barkley that he was not a role model. Thomas took a different position. Young people will always look up to you, Thomas said, noting that his mother drilled that into him.
It’s been impactful, he said, when professional athletes have vocalized fears that their own children could become victims. Just like any other black parents, these athletes have to teach their children what to do if they are stopped by the police, he said. He shared his own harrowing experience of being pulled over with his teenage son, who was frustrated after watching his father record the interaction and politely ask the officer permission to reach for his wallet and registration on the dashboard.
“This isn’t about being fair,” Thomas told his son. “It’s about doing what we have to do in order to be safe.”
![etanthomas001 Thomas signed copies of his 2018 book, 'We Matter: Athletes and Activism' after the keynote. Named one of Book Authority's best activism books of all time and tied for best non-fiction at the 2018 African-American Literary Awards, 'We Matter' features Thomas' interviews with the families of Trayvon Martin, Eric Garner, Terence Crutcher and Philando Castile, as well as team CEOs, sportscasters, media personalities and athlete-activists like Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, John Carlos, Laila Ali, Carmelo Anthony and Dwyane Wade. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas001-scaled.jpg?w=336&h=504&ssl=1)
![etanthomas086 Thomas met with UMW students and college athletes after the program. Donning a hoodie emblazoned with Malcolm X's image, he said he often challenges stereotypes by trading in his suits and ties for hoodies, Timberland boots and jeans for speaking engagements, as he did recently when speaking to a police organization. They stopped paying attention to what Thomas was wearing and instead focused on what he was saying, he said. Photo by Suzanne Carr Rossi.](https://i0.wp.com/www.umw.edu/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/02/etanthomas086-scaled.jpg?w=756&h=504&ssl=1)
Engaging with people who have different experiences and perspectives is key, Thomas said. “For people to be able to understand and empathize with your reality, even if it’s not theirs, you need to create allies.”
Student Government Association President Jason Ford asked Thomas how to fight for others’ rights without losing focus on your own causes. Thomas’ response: “As you advocate on someone else’s behalf, make sure you ask them do the same for you.”
Juniors Makiah Faulks and Khalil Vest-Sims, leaders of UMW’s Black Student Association, both found the discussion inspiring. Like Thomas, Vest-Sims often kept his emotions bottled up, he said, until he discovered writing. Faulks is eager to share Thomas’ words of wisdom with her younger brothers.
“They’re also athletes,” she said, “and I want to show them that being an activist is cool.”